At first, I wasn’t sure if joining a regular sex dating site would be the best choice for finding affairs specifically, but EasySex was recommended to me by a friend who I know is already having a successful affair from using the site. Listening to him was definitely the right choice. EasySex has everything I was looking for in an affair dating site: women looking for married men, safety and security, guaranteed discreetness, and more! EasySex made it very easy to find the kind of women I was looking for and never once gave me a scare when it came to my wife finding out about my activities on the site. I’m telling you right now that joining EasySex is the best decision you will ever make, so you really don’t even need to read the rest of this review!
One of the things that is very important to me about Easy Sex is that they pride themselves on being discreet. When you start out on EasySex, you don’t really have to give a lot of personal information to join up, which is a big positive for me. The only real thing you need to give them is an email address, but otherwise the rest of the questions are just about your preferences and what you are looking for. A quick tip I have for you is that if you want to find an affair, make sure you enter “discreet encounter” when they ask you what kind of relationship you are looking for.
- 170 messages sent
- 129 replies received
- 7 dates
- 6 sexual encounters
- 1 affair
I didn’t send as many messages as I could have simply because I’m kind of a lazy guy, to be honest. I don’t necessarily recommend it, but I do stand as living proof that you can be a lazy guy on Easy Sex and still be successful. Out of the 170 messages I sent, I got 129 replies. That’s a response rate of 76%! I’m not an expert, but I’m pretty sure that’s really good. A lot of those chats were awesome and dirty and led to me getting nude photos and other wanking material, but seven of them actually led to offline dates, too. Six of those dates led to sex (okay, one of them was only a blow job, but that’s still a win in my books) and one of those encounters led to the full affair that I am having now. To be honest with you, I could definitely find even more affairs on EasySex, but I know that I can’t juggle more than two women right now. I still like using EasySex for chatting and browsing new members though, so I’m going to continue to be a member even while I have this affair going on. At least if or when it ends, I’ll be ready to find a new partner as soon as possible.
Tips, Tricks, & Tactics
I’ve been told that most of the best “tips and tricks” of using any online dating site are just common sense things even though I had to learn all of them the hard way. I’m going to include below the tips and tricks that I found most helpful in finding an affair because I bed there are a lot of men like me out there who don’t realize they are “common sense”.
- Include A Photo: If you are like me, then you are probably very careful when it comes to putting yourself out there online. However, I can tell you from experience that if you do not have a profile photo to go along with everything else, you will not get an affair. When I had no photo, the only messages I ever got back were from girls telling me I should get a profile photo because I seemed “sketchy” without one.
- Search For The Right Women: Because Easy Sex is a sex dating site for all kinds of men and women, you have to make sure you are searching for the women that are looking for the same thing that you are. I wasted a lot of my messaging time chatting with single women who were looking for more than I could offer them or who simply didn’t want to get involved with married dating. Once I realized I could search for local women based on what they were looking for (“discreet encounters”) my life on EasySex became much more efficient.
Tactics are like your attitude when approaching things, I think. When it comes to sending messages out to other EasySex members, that’s when I’d say some tactics come into play. For example, I would say the tactics I use are:
- Being A Gentleman: Even though I know that all the women I message on Easy Sex are looking for sex like I am, I never ever jump into anything lewd or sexual. I always started all my correspondence with gentlemanly greetings and only advanced the conversation to a sexual one once they had made a mention or hinted at it themselves.
- Being Serious: I am not the kind of guy who messages women just to toy with them. I only sent out messages to women that were nearby and that I was serious about getting to know and seeing if we clicked. Anything else is just a waste of everybody’s time.
There really wasn’t a whole lot that I didn’t like about EasySex. The only thing I could even remotely complain about is…