Becoming a “Regular”
You get to know each other better and know what each other likes. Like any relationship, the more time you spend together the better you get at it.
After a few sessions with the same person you become what is called a “regular”. Escorts prefer to see regulars because they know what to expect, know your not a cop, and know you’re not a trouble maker. One way you can tell if your escort considers you a regular is when you pay. If she let’s you pay afterwards, you’re a regular.
Relationships with escorts can last for decades and a regular relationship can be fulfilling on many levels other than just sex.
I personally like having several limited but yet still very personal relationships with several women. I have a lot of women friends and a variety of lovers and it works for me. It make not be ideal, by we don’t live in an ideal world. I think I’m doing as well as I can under the circumstances. I’m happy with it and it works for me.
Since women move from service to service and in and out of the business I like to develop a regular relationship with several escorts. This way if your favorite is on the rag, in a bad mood, out of town, or quits, you have other choices to fall back on. Sometimes your just in the mood for someone different. If I find an escort I really like I generally give her my card and tell her if she changes employers to call me and let me know who she’s working for. I’ve also had women who got out of the business but still keep me as their only client. And part of the reason for that is that I gave them my phone number.
If at first you don’t succeed.
Try, try again. Sometimes your first experience with a service isn’t what you expected. You may have been emotionally too upset. You may have picked a woman who wasn’t your type. You may not have known exactly what you wanted. Maybe you couldn’t come. That’s not unusual, especially the first time. It takes a while for some people to learn how to have sex with a total stranger. A certain part of sex is learned behavior and sometimes you have to try a few times to get it right. But once you get into it you’ll find it’s well worth it and you’ll be able to do things you never dreamed.
Prostitution is illegal in most states. There are a number of reason for this. You have your Christian types who oppose it for “moral” reasons. These people feel it’s their right to stamp out all activity that they consider to be “sin”. Little do they realize that a government that is empowered to regulate sex is empowered to regulate religion. Thus Christians are cutting their own political throats but aren’t sharp enough to realize it.
Then you have a much more serious group, the sex-neg feminists who believe that prostitution is the ultimate form of female oppression by male dominated society. Again, these women can’t get past the images they see on television and have no concept of what sex work is. A man who gives a woman money for a relationship, which often includes sex no more dominates her than a man who pays a mechanic to fix his car. When I take my car in to get it fixed I don’t feel like I have power over the mechanic because I’m giving him money. He has power over me because I need my car fixed.